December 2016 I met Bradley Dwain Mcgaughey on a dating site and due to a bad relationship with a Finnish guy(reason - cheating), he initiated to message me and I was telling him my story with that cheater, a guy from Finland. I was not ready for a relationship at that time. He was trying to get my attention, pushing me to be his gf, and told me to try him... And then, I challenged him that if he wanted me to be his girlfriend, he could send me flowers. And yes he did... So I thought he was serious about me having a relationship..
We did chat, asking for info, about jobs and such...He was hesitant or not telling me the real score of his work... Later, found out that he was on disability due to his ulcer colitis. He also gets scraps as additional earnings to his social security(disability). I forgave him of that bit of dishonesty...He finds a job, and is able to get it and move from his mom's house, just to rent to another house/apartment. Everything seems hard for him to save since he started Zero. Okay, we are good but since I knew, he a sex offender, and there is a law in my country banning sex offenders here, and me having a problem flying on a plane, it seems the situation is difficult for us to meet... So I was even to him, we have to end the relationship earlier as I don't even want to make it longer if things in the future are not possible... He was declining, fighting for me to not leave him...He said he would do things just to make stuff possible. We continue talking, at the same time, working while time passes. From 2016 to 2019, seems life was hard for him, switching house to different house. He had gotten a new car and sometimes got short and there was no way for him but to borrow from me, and i let him. He also paid that though. One time, he was sick and vomited at work, so he became jobless. When that happens, sometimes, that makes me frustrated because of course, I want him to save just to make things come true for the two of us...Okay now, the pandemic has come, and people are losing their jobs because of the lockdown. he was again jobless and finding a new one, a work-from-home... At first, since I had this account humanatic, the task was only listening to calls and categorizing them, I gave him my login details and let him work. Till he got an online job which is a company doing charities, he just needed to call people just to donate money for the company...The pay is not that really good. But it's okay, he can pay his bills... During pandemic, Trump gave American citizens the stimulus, which he was able to save. Right then since he was good in the stock market, he placed his money in the stock market, and then, months later, it grew to 100 k USD. While doing that stocks and saving money from Stimulus, he was I think chatting also to someone from Mexico. And sometimes he would have to say something like, I have to unwind Houston, don't want to just work and work and no play..>So he unwinded, which is perhaps, that unwinding is meeting that girl from Mexico and having a fun time with her without me knowing. Till they live together and agree to get married in July 2020. He able to buy a house, a cash of 25 thou and some are installments after gaining money from the stock market. Everything now was complete, electric appliances at his home... 2020 I think I stalked his daughter's FB account and his ex-wife's Fb account. We able to chat and the two told me that he was seeing a girl and talking about getting married. The next day, was chatting still with the two and including his mom. telling me that he was seeing a woman named Susan.. I confronted him and told him that I had spoken with his family and they told me that he has a girl from Mexico.. And he was mad at me, why I didn't trust him and needed to talk to his family... He denied that he has someone new and preparing to at least get married.
Okay, I believed what he said.. We continued the relationship and till then, on November 29, last Wednesday, I found out that by putting his name under Google last week, I saw his name Tiktok and there was a girl, tagging him to Buy the tub scrubber... I was not at ease with that girl tagging him to buy something... I look for the name of that girl on YouTube and BOOM! Saw their videos of him and her kissing and hugging each other, and a video holding a paper of marriage certificate with label, Mr and Mrs. Confronted him and asked him if what is his marital status, and he admitted that yes, he was married to someone.... End of the story....
I WAS A FOOL, I was with him during his darkest days, and I didn't expect that after he got a bit of abundance in life, he just DROP ME LIKE A HOT POTATO for another woman... He said he could not open it up early to me because he didn't want to hurt me.
FOOL! Because it was 3 years already that he was happy with someone, while me still alone longing for his presence just to visit me here in my country... We have a plan to remove his name from the sex offender registration so that he won't have any hindrance anymore of being banned in the airport... The sad thing, it never becomes a REALITY...
